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I love dick (pics)

A month or so back the wonderful Hannah Lockhardt wrote this great post in praise of dick pics. I’m totally with her. I love dick pics. I love being the photographer. Photographing partners and casual lovers is a privilege. I love that they trust me to photograph them, I love the record I have of our times together and I love being able to capture and articulate the male body. I think the male body is a beautiful thing and for me the dick is a fundamental part of that.

But I don’t just love being the photographer; I love receiving dick pics too. I realise that many people don’t: they find them intimidating and/or they’ve arrived uninvited. I’m lucky in that I’ve never received an unsolicited photo. My DMs are closed and I run a pretty tight ship when it comes to giving out my number to people I chat with on dating apps. I’ve only ever received images of cocks I’m either already acquainted with or have a keen interest in getting to know.

For me, the exchange of photos before meeting is hot as fuck. It’s not something I do often, but if the rapport is there and I know I plan on getting naked with someone then a steady stream of photos is the most tantalising appetiser. I’m pretty certain that I wouldn’t have had such a brilliant and hot six hours with this man last summer if it hadn’t been for weeks of messaging and photos that got us super excited to meet in the flesh. And once we’ve met? Well keep them coming! Photos maintain intimacy when distance, primary partnerships, work schedules and family life dictate actual meetings. I’ve been known to whine when the supply of cock shots has tailed off!

Then there’s days like yesterday where I was so hungover that I didn’t get dressed all day. The entire day was spent naked on my sofa satisfying my hangover horn. On days like that I’m a blatant filthy flirt and unashamedly encouraging people to get me off with their photos. The morning brought cock from North London, dripping with pre-cum. In the afternoon I delighted in photos received from across the Atlantic, snapped beneath his desk with colleagues in the next room.

One of the things I love about being sent photos is that the ones a man takes for me are usually so different to the ones I’d take of him. I tend towards ‘arty farty’ shots, ones that are staged or that tell a story. The ones sent in personal chats are often cruder, hotter, less thought through. They demand a physical response rather than an artistic appreciation. But then sometimes one arrives in your phone that really is a work of art and a celebration of cock and then I just go ‘wow’!

Photographer is anonymous but the image is posted with his consent.

Sinful Sunday


  1. Submiss34F

    That is a work of art!
    Missy x

  2. Molly

    I am with you and Hannah on the dick pic thing. I love taking them and I love getting them (from the right people). They can be crude and in the moment or more artistic works but both are fabulous in their own right.
    As for this, it feels like it both those thing and wow is it utterly glorious as a result

  3. HappyComeLucky

    What a wonderful picture. I love pictures of dicks. I love seeing them. The variety between the moment, the impulsive v. the planned, the different angles and oh, my, the sheer damn hotness of knowing how hard someone is.

  4. auroragloryblog

    Wow I think I’d be more of a fan of dick pics if they were as artfully shot as this one! I enjoyed reading this, though it’s made me realise how long it’s been since I’ve done any photo swapping with anyone! Now I miss it lol x

  5. Lapsedcatholicwife

    I enjoy the dick pics of lovers and friends from this delicious world, but did not appreciate random sendings, and was happy to state the same to the sender. However I would of been (gulp) absolutely delighted to have this vision of glory pop into my in box, this has just captured everything perfectly and has left me with the desire of having a fuck for a fuck.

  6. Indigo

    I’m glad to see this too! Very sexy b&w filter adds to the drama.
    Indie xx

  7. Modesty Ablaze (@ablazingmodesty)

    Oh indeed a fabulous member!!! xxx – k

  8. Kayla Lords

    A solicited dick pic (or one you photograph yourself) is always welcome to me, too. And this is DELICIOUS!

  9. Marie Rebelle

    OMG that image indeed is a work of art. It’s SO beautiful, so stunning!
    This post of yours has now inspired me to write my own take on dick pics, hopefully to be posted on my blog soon 🙂
    Rebel xox

  10. Floss

    Oh if only any of the dick pics I received looked that good! Mine are all unsolicited and quite frankly lack any effort or imagination. This one oozes both of those things, as well as a bit of class and a lot of sexy x

  11. kinkyandperky

    I love your writing and how you make even humble things always seem so multi-faceted. I thought this was utterly joyful.

    • Exposing40

      What a lovely comment – thank you!

  12. luvbunnysl82

    I agree that dick pics can be great, when in the ‘moment’ and consent is given. On a rare occasion that someone sends a delightful image such as this one, I could wholeheartedly encourage more dick pics ?
    Like you say, what we see when we photograph is more often thought through to get the aesthetics just ‘so’. But an image provided to us can have artistic merit in it’s own right. ?

  13. Jo

    I’m not generally a fan of dick pics, but this is a *beautiful* photograph – and a beautiful cock!

  14. LittleSwitchBitch

    This is such a hot shot!

  15. sub-Bee

    I’m someone that’s very hit or miss with dick pics. I do appreciate the art of a good image like this one but I much prefer it if it’s the dick of someone I know.

  16. Krystal Minx

    I love a good dick pic, that’s for sure, but therein lies the trouble…getting a GOOD dick pic. So many seem to be taken as if they are supposed to be fabulous just because they contain a dick. This is definitely not the case. They need to contain a sense of creativity, artistry, and thoughtful composition. Those are the pics that makes me want to keep looking and study the image…just like this one. It’s color, texture, composition, shadows, and even the background, make me want to continue gazing. It is so well done that I don’t want to look away, making sure I get to take in every ounce of visual pleasure it has to offer.

  17. Gilly Langley

    Well that’s something to behold the lighting the cock , just glorious. I agree an invited dick pic is totally the only way I want pics. Love the writing about naked sofa hangover and flirting getting guys to send u pics. Fantastic

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